Are you a virgin? or are we just talking about being shy when it comes to someone specific? Either way, thinking about sex shouldn’t be stressful. I understand being shy, because I am myself. Shyness stems from self consciousness. I think the best advice I can give, is to do what you want and be confident, even if you have to fake it a little.
Having tattoos and piercings is not unprofessional.
What’s unprofessional is turning down an aspiring employee due to superficial reasons and not their skill level or experience.
one of the most accurate posts I’ve ever read.